If wrangling kids and coordinating outfits feels like a mission, you’re definitely not alone. You’ve booked your family photo session, picked out outfits, convinced your partner it’ll be painless, and now… the pressure is on.
As a mum and a photographer, I totally get it. You want the experience to go smoothly and for the photos to feel like magic. The good news? It absolutely can. Over the years, I’ve gathered a few tried-and-true tips to help your photo session feel relaxed and fun (with maybe a little joyful chaos thrown in for good measure).
1. Snacks & Treats
Snacks are the secret weapon. Keep a stash of mess-free goodies handy to keep little bellies full and moods high. A promised treat for after the session can also work wonders for motivation.
2. Timing is Everything
Try to make sure everyone gets a solid sleep the night before and has a decent meal before we start. Tired kids and hangry partners are no one’s dream team. Trust me.
3. Dress for Comfort
Choose outfits that feel good and suit the weather. Layers are your friend. If your child isn’t comfy, it’ll show. Simple and happy will always photograph better than fancy and frustrated.
4. Bring a Spare
Kids and dirt go hand in hand. A backup outfit for each child and maybe a towel can save the day. It’s also nice for the drive home if someone ends up sandy, soggy or sticky.
5. Prep Your People
Let your kids know something fun is happening. Try saying, “We’re going to hang out with Rosie and have a little adventure.” Light, playful language keeps things stress-free and sounds much more fun than “we’re going to a family photo session”!
6. Skip the “Cheese”
The best smiles aren’t forced. They’re felt. Rather than directing your kids to smile, play with them, laugh with them and let the joy come naturally. I’ll guide you the whole way, gently and playfully.
7. Just Have Fun
Your energy sets the tone. The more relaxed and present you are, the more your kids will be too. So take a breath, trust the process and let’s make some beautiful memories together.
Your Family Session Pack List
Here’s what I recommend bringing along:
- A change of clothes for each kid
- Snacks, treats, water bottles and any motivators
- Towels and wipes
- A neutral, not-too-bright blanket (in case grass isn’t their vibe)
- Any special items you’d love captured like a book or toy
- Walkable shoes
- Layers if it’s breezy or chilly
My family sessions are all about connection, not perfection. They’re relaxed, fun and guided in a way that lets everyone be themselves. I’ll gently lead the way while capturing the giggles, snuggles and in-between moments that really tell your story.
Sessions take place across the Central Coast, from sandy toes at the beach to wildflowers in the bush. We’ll pick a spot that feels right for your crew.
Keen to let the chaos in? Click here to get in touch; I’ve got you.
